Just remember to communicate and also both be willing to give and be flexible.

Some things of Gor. are practical and work.. like many of the positions... I love them.

However, if you do not desire a more cold, distant, relationship then tell him. Never be afraid to be vocal as a sub. a good Dom will never put out your internal fire. So make sure you make your desires, limits, etc known... but resepectfully.. if he cannot listen or doesn't.. then I say move on (not to say things have gotten that serious.. just say IF)

compromise is a great thing in BDSM. Remember to keep an open mind too.. some things I was hard against... I now love.

-anya-