Cream,

As I said to you yesterday in the chat room. It doesn't matter what anyone thinks of Gor but you and the one you choose to serve! You have to decide where it fits into your life, or even if it does fit, or how much it fits.

Just as with anything else in this world, my kink may not be your kink, my choices/views on Gor may not (and probably won't) work for you... reason being, because they are MINE and come from my own life experience, etc.

It is great that you have asked for input and want to find out more about it. And many here have wonderful insight on all aspects and sides of the equation. It appears as though the links posted are all excellent sources of information for both sides of the spectrum...

Study it, think about it, talk it over with DNW, but ultimately it is a choice only you can make... just take it slowly and work your way through it step by step.

Who knows, you may find you hate all of it, love parts of it, or are totally enamored with most of it... that is part of the fun of the exploration though!

Hugs~
Annie