My main issue with Gor is the so called Goreans. The few discussions I've had with a Gorean and stuff I've seen written by them on the net suggests that in the Gorean scene Gorean submissiveness is more of a competition than drawing inspiration from it.

I don't think its healthy for anybody to have ideals they can't live up to. But that said, my relationship with my slave fits that description pretty good. But that has probably more to do with that her personality was like this to begin with. It was nothing that had to be imposed.