Once again I disagree with you Tom. At least for me it is essential to have ideals which I aspire to, and in practice that often means I cannot live up to. My life is not completely stable, any more than most peoples', and by having high ideals I hope that I will moving towards them, rather than risking accepting where I am which means that I might sink.
Huuuugs and good to tussle with you once in a while.
cariad