We all seem to agree that Gor is fantasy and so by definition suited for role playing. I live in a real world with a self imposed rigid set of guidlines and ethics. I am pleased with my actions and my life. When a slave or sub calls me Master it is out of joy not from fear that I will punish her. My lifestyle is such that it has this worlds values at heart.

If I show a new sub a place that she has only visited in her fantasy I show her that it can be real and make a promise to her that it is where I live. She can accept and join me there to leave when ever she wants too.