I can't wait till I can get my collar. Like my Joe said the first one will be for our first year. I was overwhelmed and very grateful at his patience in letting me choose just the right on. Someone really should design something less Goth for the everyday, middle aged woman!

The one for play in private I left entirely up to my Joe. He does deserve to have some say without having to threaten His pita with the brush.

Our final and forever one will be at the end of our year. To me it's just as important and meaningful as a wedding ring is. * Not that I don't want that too, hint, hint *