Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
Congratulations, His_pita!

What do you mean by final and forever one?

Thank you Ruby.

What I mean by final and forever is that we have decided that when we enter real life we will sign our contract that we have been working on since meeting each other and knowing we want real life. my Joe will then give me a collar that we have picked out that I will wear for the first year of my training.

At the end of that year if we are still committed to a 24/7 D/s lifestyle, as we feel we will be. We will make a new and probably much simpler contract and design a collar that will be my permanent one. Like a wedding ring would be. We want to have a ceremony where our friends and family can join us and witness our happiness and commitment to each other.

I admit being new to this lifestyle and a fairly private and reserved person I had initial feelings that I would be embarrassed to admit D/s to my family. But, loving my Joe and understanding this lifestyle much more clearly now, I think it will be a very beautiful and moving event. One I am really looking forward to and find myself wondering, "whatever will I wear."