You know, that is a tough question to answer for me. It was kind of a whirlwind of activity. Not only did I move from Canada from the town I had always lived in of 10,000 people to moving to Houston USA, a city of 6 million to meet a person I had only talked to online. I guess that in itself would be a submissive move.
Then he slapped a collar on me right there in the airport lol. You should have seen the looks on people's faces as he led us through the airport to the car on leashes!