I am new here so I hope no one minds me responding to this.
I have switched genders (for the most part) inbow: and to be honest I have Topped and bottomed as both a Man and as a Woman. I much preferred to Top as a Woman because I wasn't happy with who * I Was* and in so being I couldn't let go of total control, but now that I am more secure in who I am and what I like, I am very happy being my Mistress's boi.

With regards,
Sweetsboi