thank you for your qestion,"Ocean-soul" for your thoughtful qestion and now I'm going to spill the bean's so please don't bite me cause I like it

And wecome to the forum Sweetsboi, hope that you enjoy your stay with us.

now as for spilling the beans, I also have changed gender from female to male, and from my point of view, I grew up submissive. With a very "quick handed" mother, who used belt's wooded spoon's, canes to dish out punishment. In my earlier sexual life as a young adult, violent/cruel parterns became my scene, looking back in hinded sight, this was partly due to the tormented feelings that I had about myself, I didn't know at the time that there was help.

ten years ago, I evenutually got the help I needed and my life has change for the better, I'm still a sub, with a happy contented heart, and now I enjoy every bit of life with my lovely Mistress Rhiannon who is also my Wife. one day she'll get round to putting in a post, she's such a busy person she sya's hiya to you all .

well I must go now "pet cemertry" is on, meeting my mates (sily joke - I know!)

have a good day/night to you all
bye bye for now.