If your gender was switched?

[Nikita]

If I were a man...hmmm...I'd have only one toy to play with?

On a more philosophical note:

Sometimes I think there is more testosterone in my body than I can handle. I am direct in most things. Guile is not my game.

But then, I switch...Horny as a cat in heat, I bat my eyes and wiggle my butt, break a glass or two to get attention, you know the game...just to get what I want/need.

Guess I'm a switch. What's man behavior? or woman behavior? DOM or Domme and sub relationship can be black and white, butt, what about the gray...I'm confused, or am I?

Nik

[Microwave0ven]

good topic! brings up all sorts of interesting ideas..

i've always felt like my brain is working like the opposite gender, while i'm stuck in my body. So, if I had a gender change, if my brain stayed the same, I think I'd be perfectly happy. I'd still be switch, as I theoretically am now, but I think I'd feel more comfortable in my body if I had a gender change.

[Escritor]

If I were female, I wouldn't be a switch but just a sub. Since I'm mostly sub, I guess a gender change doesn't change much what I am in other ways

[Lilly My Sweet]

Hehe love the question! And no problem in coming up with the answer on my part. As a female submissive, if my gender were switched to male, I would definately take on the dominant role! I'm learning that BDSM is so very stimulating to me not only because as a submissive I love the feeling of helplessness and the play of fear vs. trust and being used as a tool for pleasure for Master, but also because I love seeing the thrill that Master takes in His handling of me! His arousal and the creative ways He stimulates it, is what turns me on the most! Very roundabout, I suppose. So yes, male dominant definately so I can take a driver's seat in the experieince rather than a back.

[His_pita]

It is interesting. I think I would be a gay Dom with my own submissive But then I think I would have a penis, so maybe I would have a woman. I just don't know really.

[slo18]

if my gender were switched humm thats a tough one for me, cause i really dont know how many of my submissive personality traites are comeing are there because of a combination of gender typeing and school age tortore ( the normal stuff not the horrable bad kind) if I had been growing up a boy I wouldent have been teased and taunted for my weight nearly as much I probibly would have played foot ball because ofit ( as the foot ball coach already asked me to severl times) so instead of reacting negatively and turning into a wallflower, doing what ppl told me to avoid the taunts and figureing out early that pleaseing ppl got them on your side and made them want to protect u, I would have grown up being taught all those lovely gender typeing roles and would probibly be a Dom now instead of a sub. but if I were just switched now due to some random freakiness ( alt dimention/ or gender switching lasor beam weilding aliens lol) I would defently still be submissive.

[Kaori-san]

Really good topic and I dont have a clue really -ponders- ... no still don't and i've been thinking about this for a while.

I doubt if my sub role would change.. but it could -sighs- I'd only know if it happened but I guess it wouldn't since, after all, even though my outside would change inside I'd still be the same

[fetishdj]

Hmmmm, this could be difficult... not deciding if I was Domme or sub in this new form but stopping myself getting distracted by the breasts. Oh, and the novelty of genitals capable of more than one orgasm...

I'm an altruistic and idealist kind of guy and I am aware that there is an excess of subs in the world so, if I became a woman, I'd almost certainly pick up a whip and dress in leather. It's the least I can do.

I'll probably stick with domming women though. Men are ugly and hairy and should not be seen in the light of day (I should know, I am one)

Why not be a male dom now? Well, you see... erm... I'm too nice as a man. As a woman I think I could be more of a bitch and get away with it.

[oneslave4me]

Oh, and the novelty of genitals capable of more than one orgasm...

O, but the novelty of being able to aim where you pee... and to have that longish appendage to play with.

I find dicks fascinating. If switched, I would play with mine constantly just to see it cum.

since I switch anyway, the original question doesn't really apply. Maybe I'd be more dominant since guys are societally conditioned to be more dominant, but I get more dominant as time goes on anyway.

[Isabelle]

It seems I have a rather novel viewpoint on this, and I'm rather surprised I'm the only TS to reply ^_^

Its not often someone else brings up the subject in an open manner like this so its quite refreshing when it happens.

For me, gender has no bearing on my role. Both before and after I decided to make my change I was a submissive. I tried being a switch/top, and while I'm technically competent at it, its not something I enjoy or get any fulfillment from.

Although, thats not to say it might not change(even moreso) in the future. Considering the changes I'm going through now, the thought of me being the one cracking the whip in a few years isn't that far out there either...

[learningtopleez]

I have thought about this one for a while too....it was a tough one! But then it hit me...I consider myself to be bisexual...so being sub to a really hot Domme would be yummy. Of course I wouldn't be bisexual there if I were a guy. Then again...I can imagine having a beautiful woman submit to me as her Dom would be very gratifying...and having learned some things from the Doms I have had...I would know just what to do to keep her happy and fulfilled! Hey...do I get to choose the size of my penis here??

[Sweetsboi]

It seems I have a rather novel viewpoint on this, and I'm rather surprised I'm the only TS to reply ^_^..

Isabelle,

You aren't the only TS to reply. bearbeast and I replied early on in the posts. (0n page one)...I am the second reply and bearbeast is the third. We both are FtM.

sweetsboi

[FurryFury]

Heh!

Well first of all if I were a boy I would have had a LOT more sex by now because I wouldn't have been so constrained by societal rules for females which are crap but yes I was trying to be a "good girl" for far too long.

I have always wanted to know what it feels like to have sex as a man but I do so love being a girl.

If I were a male I'd probably be at least bi though. I'm already somewhat attracted to both but I believe inside I'd stay mostly the same. I have topped at the direction of and gratification of others and I can do it pretty well. My guess is I would have done that more due to expectations but inside I would still be the sub that loves men and is curious about women.
Wouldn't I? I think so. I might not be married though and that would be a good thing, more options...

Fury

[Misato36]

Even if my gender was switched to male I would still be a sub. I am submissive by nature and do not have a domineering bone in my body.

[frankee]

Even if my gender was switched to male I would still be a sub. I am submissive by nature and do not have a domineering bone in my body.

i agree with Misato, if my gender was switched to male i would still be submissive, it's my nature too. As a female, i am comfortable in my sexuality but if i was a male i don't if i would be comfortable being bi. i don't know why i feel like this way...hmmmmmmmmm.