Need help with proper begging etiquette...

[BDSM_Tourguide]

In my quest to be the perfect sub, I need to improve my begging.

In your quest to be the perfect submissive, remember that the ego required to consider oneself to be perfect may be counter-productive to submission.

Begging can take on a wide variety of flavors and shapes, and may not require words at all. The tilt of the head and the way the eyes are held can indicate desire, whether for a piece of food or for something more lurid.

'May I,' 'May I please,' and 'If I may' are all fine ways to beg, but for more added flavor, try throwing in some 'If it pleases you, master,' 'I would greatly desire...,' or 'It would give me such pleasure to...' This not only indicates your desire, but also the level of that desire. It makes the phrase, "May I please be allowed to suck your cock?" transform into "Master, it would give me great pleasure to be allowed to suck your cock." See the difference? Now, that's begging.

And no offense to Sir L, but please don't use phrases such as 'this one,' or 'this girl.' IMO, it does nothing but to detract from an otherwise pleasant scene or dialogue. Practice your body language and the way you ask first, then worry about the semantics. Who was it that said, "Be beautiful in your thoughts and you will be beautiful in your words?"

[His_pita]

I'm going to have to talk to my Dom about this begging thing. I don't know if I am suppose to be doing that!

I do like your examples BDSM Tourguide. They're much more erotic. I can see Him liking that.

I hate talking in the third person though. I will do it during a scene if that makes him happy but it made me feel silly doing it when I tried it in the beginning of our relationship.

[Sir Lanceloth]

thats it! do what you two feal is right

My "third person dialog" was only suggestions, some like it others dont, i see that you and TG agree on not liking third person dialogue

[solesta]

thats it! do what you two feal is right

My "third person dialog" was only suggestions, some like it others dont, i see that you and TG agree on not liking third person dialogue

Master Sir Lanceloth,

This gilr's Master like her to use the third person thing in chat rooms but not in r/l cause of her daughter. And also on threads she doesn't have to use it but it does come out from time to time. Giggles she has had it slip in r/l too.. that was a bit embarasing.

[Blue_Monday]

I'm going to have to talk to my Dom about this begging thing. I don't know if I am suppose to be doing that!

If all goes well, you'll be begging soon enough.

Sort of a nod to third-person, and a way to add a little spice to begging: try a third-person plea like, "Please let your slut ride you...god, I want to ride you!" or "Daddy, spank me... spank your slutty little girl!" (I guess some Doms might think that second one is too much of an order, not enough of a plea.) This way you degrade yourself a bit more without having to commit to full-time third-person tense. Plus, it's really dirty, and a lot of guys just love hearing the words come out of a pretty little mouth.

As for me, there's nothing I like better than a pleading nuzzle from my puppy-boy--a little push with his head to nudge my legs apart, and a murmured "please" or "thank you" is more than enough. *dreamy sigh*