Sorry to have rambled on so much. I'm still pretty green when it comes to writing on these types of forums and fitting in.
Mara.
Marachai,
Your post was excellent - very clear and coherent and heartfelt. Don't worry so much about fitting in - just be yourself. We are all different and that seems to work.
Also being myself,
jeanne
Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.