Thanks, Kelli.

Adrian, another thing to think about is experience in real life, wanting to do something, versus wanting to keep something in fantasy play.

Click here:
http://www.vampirespet.com/ActivityChecklist.html

For the list that Kelli posted with more categories for bigger discussion. For example, has she ever topped/dommed someone? What activites?
What did she like, what didn't she?
What turns you on?

The main thing about these questions is to use them to respect each other's desires and not use them against the other person. It's the whole, my kink isn't your kink, but I respect your right to have it thing.