Arguably, the first submissive thing i did was a pair of rope cuffs to the bed...but everyone i know has a pair of cuffs these days...

The first time i really felt submissive was when my gf sat on my face, while I was wearing my first butt plug. I ate her out while she leaned back and massaged my naughty bits. The view...and the feeling...were incredible. We don't do much outright dom/sub stuff (yet), but we have our moments.

Meh- I havent used my toys in a while- gotta wait for her roommate to go out over the weekend...ah, college life