Quote Originally Posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?

Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?

There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...
My first experience took place after we had returned to my house after a movie that showed a girl tied by a man. One thing lead to another and my date tied my wrists behind my back with his belt. After he let me try(unsuccesssfully) to get free he started to put his hands over me(things he had done on several prior dates). The effect that it had on me with my hands tied was unbelievable with a massive sexual arousal like I had not had before. With my parents in the house,it was too much for either of us to "go all the way" but the next night I let him tie me again and it was the first of several wild and exciting times we had with each other. Since that time(ten years ago) I have been very eager to do it again with others.