I do think she should be obedient in every sense, not just well-behaved and polite in public, but willing to provide any service her Guardian requests from her.

Certainly, upside down cock-sucking would be a challenge for her, and something which she would have to be trained in. She seems to have a fondness for sucking things, so she should learn well.

I think the outfit you suggested would be perfect for Kate. Also a blouse with pleated skirt and knee-high socks would be good. At night she should wear a white camisole with no panties underneath, as I do like have "access".

She will sleep in the same bed as me, but should she be allowed to sleep freely or bound? In what position should she be bound?

She is sometimes reluctant to sit in my lap, and I wonder whether an appropriate way to chastise her would be to make her sit on something else.

She likes sports, such as soccer and tennis, but can throw a tantrum if she is losing. It occured to me that there is another use for a tennis racket...hmmm perhaps a public chastisement?