It doesn't sound unreasonable at all. I've often heard people say that the BDSM isn't just about sex, and I tend to agree with that sentiment. It's possible to find stories like that, but I think you'd have to do some searching. I think a lot of times a writer gets criticized for not having enough sex and then gets discouraged with the work entirely. Anyway, I'll have a look around and see if I can find any that fit the bill (as I understand it, anyway.). If I find anything, I'll put it in a new category on my bookshelf.

Take care!

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