had a thought the other day while talking with my MAster, and went searching for a suitable thread to post in. whilst searching came across this one. thought i would just add my own thoughts.

i too fantasize about how far i could/would go as far as pain is concerned Domination King. and i thought one of the 'catch cries' of BDSM was for the sub/slave/bottom to be taken beyond the places they thougth they could go. to be stretched in all ways, so that they would experience more than they ever thought possible.
and i have done this in some ways, mostly in so far as my levels of pain and endurance are concerned, for different Doms/MAsters. but,the one thing i have found is that i go further, more easily, more quickly, more submissively if i trust the Dom and have a special relationship with Him. and i suspect that a lot if not all subs would say that a lot of their limits change over the time of a relationship.
anyway, thank you for listening, and i resume my search.
blu