Welcome Dauntless!
I met my first and second r/l Doms on-line...then we met in r/l. With the first I wasn't sure what I was getting into as I was a new subbie...and with the second...I went to alt...just to see what was out there...alot of fakes and some just looking for a one night stand...but I was lucky enough not to meet those in r/l! My Dom and i talked via e-mail first, then by phone...and eventually met for dinner in a very public place. After he and I were both sure we wanted to move forward...we did! Btw...he was a great teacher and continues to be a very good friend. I would say for me...luck on both counts.![]()