Quote Originally Posted by Dauntless
Did you meet your partner before discovering the common interests?
That's us. We met, fell in love, became a couple. BDSM came later. With hindsight, I'd say we did send out the right erotic signals on the dominance/submission level too, and this formed part of our attraction to each other.

Our roles are clearly defined. We don't switch. BDSM is just one of the many aspects our relationship and love life though.