Quote Originally Posted by fallenstar View Post
naomisagoodgirl-- thanx i'll be sure to talk to him-- he's one of kind-- when there is something important to achieve he can detach his mind from his physical needs-- such as sex(much to my dismay lol). he's using this as a lesson(and party as punishment for disobedience, but thats a different story). he wants me to learn, and try my hardest-- and i know i will not only to [lease him but also because i have the knowledge that once i learn i can start to have sex again.. i see it.. as an odd type of incentive to do well-- he knows me well and Not having sex with him is one of the few things that can push me to try my hardest. there. i tried to explain how i see it in my head but i'm not sure if anyone will understand it. it just Is frustrating not to have sex.
You can justify it any way you like but the bottom line is of you are happy and he is happy that is all that really matters. When you first started this thread it didn't seem like that was the case but apparently you are fine with it all so have fun.