well i hope i didnt give the impression that my collar is just a fashion item. i live with my master for two years now. the collar is a nice visual addition, i like that it is visible that i belong to someone, even though most people have no clue why i have a lock on my necklace, my mum wondered once why i wear a lock. i coudlnt tell her so i just said it means a lot to me and i got it for valentines and it's an antique so she dropped the subject as i know how she thinks about the whole ds idea. sometimes i really wish everyone would know what it means but i guess that would nto be best idea, ie at work.

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humm being collared and wearing a collar for me are two diffrent things. I wear a collar as a restrant and quite thruoghly enjoy it. i also have collars that are worn purely for fashion. I was asked once by my Dom earlier in our relationship if I wanted to be collared by him. even though i had already agreed to marry him I wasnt comfortable enough in our ds relationship to say yes. its something he still doesnt understand after three years. being collared for me is even more important more of a commitment then being married. it doesnt matter to me what the item is that simbolizes my ownership, its the ownership that is important. hope that made sence am not good at putting my thoughts into words that people understand