Quote Originally Posted by delia View Post
Do you ENJOY submission? Does your arrangement work for you? If it does, then who cares what anyone calls it. Maybe you feel submissive only on certain days in certain ways in certain places. Are you only a 1/3 submissive? Hell no. You are a submissive who lives in reality.
This idea of yours, delia, is one of the reasons why I posed the question in the first place. Why is it for anyone else to quantify or qualify another's most deeply held feelings and thoughts? My answer? It's not. We are who we are. There shouldn't be a label placed on it at all.

tessa