Quote Originally Posted by His_little one View Post
The distance surely doesn’t help as I know things would be different if we saw each other more frequently not to mention the days between seeing each other can be tedious in trying to find time to have a normal conversation. So on one hand I’m supposed to be embracing the sub/slave in me and sharing it with him then I’m supposed to pack away that role and be the supportive, patient, understanding, independent, vanilla girlfriend that is totally ok with going 3-4 days without talking to him-- talk about difficult.
I have a similar problem, although there isn't the distance, our work schedules limit the amount of time we can spend together. The fact that this relationship is quite new as well, add to that the fact that this is new to both of us...I find I just don't know how to feel in the gaps between us being together and e-mails. I don't want to seem needy or clingy, but I tend to come across that way at times, when we are in contact regularily I have no problem, but then 2-3 days go by and I start to panic and my mind races....did I do something wrong? should I call him or wait for him to call me? Has he lost interest? Logicly I know I should just continue on with my life as I did before I met him, but I find that a struggle for me, I don't want my life to be like it was before I met him, I enjoy the changes that have come since we met. I feel that finally someone is willing to listen to what I want and tell me what he wants, I feel I can finally be myself....but only when we are in contact, what to do the rest of the time?