I guess I should have visited here more often. First Flaming-Redhead trying to be who you aren't is very hard and trying, some times life only offers us one path and no choices. You got to that point and thankfully you did what you had to do. I only wish I was graced to guide you through this life and growth.

Second Arria I am very proud of your remrk but I do hope that you continue on with your loving Dom and never have to go through a breakup you don't want.

jeanne I don't think anyone could have said it better, you summed up submission, let the Dom decide what is perfect, course the Dom must know you well and value you beyond anything else in his life. Then his perfect will be what you both want and need.

My only request of a sub/slave that is etched in stone is that she shows me the respect that I have earned, nothing more nothing less. That keeps me on my toes knowing that I must earn the respect each day. I have just gone through a couple of months with morgan disrespecting often and deeply, mostly through her own self doubt and negativity. Hardly respectful to call the man / Dom you claim to love a liar, thief, and other things on a daily basis with little or no basis for it. I have all ways shown her respect till just lately and now I do not dare to let love or respect for her grow again for the same reasons that Flaming-Redhead took 10 years to figure out.