Mamy years ago (I think we'd seen "Close Encounters of the Third Kind" in the theater, if that tells you how long : ), I had a date with a fellow who was already somewhat of a friend. When he kissed me goodnight, he grabbed my hair and pulled my head back, and shared a truly amazing good night kiss. Things didn't work out with that particular fellow, but I have had that kiss in my fantasies for years. After a very vanilla, but reasonably happy marriage, (until the last few years of it) I decided that I wanted to try to explore what I call a submissive streak that I recognized in myself. So, I find myself in the dating field again as a widow with a teenage daughter - so it's not easy. I went out a couple of times with another fellow a while back, who was more of a Dom, and after telling him about the hair thing, he said he thought that reaction was to him a sign of a true sub. We parted friends, but it didn't work out, since he was looking for someone 24/7 and I wasn't even considering that at the time.

I've recently met someone on line who has taken more time to explain all of this to me, and actually was the one who told me about this site. I am now trying to find out just how submissive I might be. Thank you, Sir Russell, for your time and paitence with this newbie - you have opened my eyes up to something I hadn't even really considered before, as you know. I will be interested in where it leads.