Good question, Isabelle90.

Well, I know a couple who certainly could be mistaken for a Dom and sub, but really they're not, he's just an overbearing pain the ass and she simpy puts up with him; I really do believe that men like him and doms are poles appart.

On the other hand, something really odd happened to me and my other half while we were out one evening a while back, this ("normal looking") couple started talking to us and telling us all about their extremely alternative sex life-- can you believe it? Anyway, while we do engage in a few odd sexual practices--both literally and figuratively *gg* --I wouldn't have said there was anything about our appearance or dress to single us out from any other couple.

So, I really don't know.