I'd imagine it depends on how "out" they are, you know? I mean, someone decked out in black leather and chains is likely to be into BDSM. Then again, they could be just be making a fashion statement. I think it's probably more likely you'd be able to tell if someone was a Dom or a sub, especially a Dom - probably more direct and... um... commanding, you know. Or something

Actually, since I started exploring this I've been playing a little game with myself, looking at a crowd and thinking "1 person in 10 is into BDSM, so there are probably 3 (or 4, or 50) people here who are actively into "the life"". And then I smile.


Quote Originally Posted by Isabelle90 View Post
So after a time can we expect to acquire "bondar" "domdar" or "subdar"? lol
That made me laugh. Very hard