*kind of intrigued by Tessa's answers - but you would nejoy snuggling and feeling close with me, no?
I get the idea that you'd want to protect your personal space of course - I do too, most people do, and that's largely unspoken...
I agree it doesn't have to be about sex, it may even become softer and warmer when both know it isn't leading to sex. With a good movie, a bottle of good wine and snacks nearby and a friend you really like, oh wow..