Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
I fully understand that. It really works well for Tops and Bottoms... but not so well for Dominants and Submissives... (imo)
I don't follow... sure, me and the guy flogging me were just a bottom and a top for that bit of play, but there are also people in serious D/s relationships who go to these things to play as well, because they don't have the equipment at home, or just because they like an audience. And surely someone can engage in "casual" topping or bottoming but also want D/s in their life? (I'm pretty sure that describes me, anyway.)