Well of course the submissive should know the meaning of Safe, Sane, and Consensual. She should also have (as you just mentioned) safewords in place, and use them if needed. She, imho, should also be able to throw in any of those pointers that you may forget being as you are the Dom. Not saying you would forget!! But just in case things got a little....fun....and you forgot, for instance to ask her frequently, if she is okay....she could maybe remind you?

Just a newbies thought on the subject! Lord knows I had to learn what I know from an experienced Dom, and am grateful that he was kind and compassionate. Although I had picked up a few tips from here and there!

~ltp~