Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
That written, I think he can be both loving and strict simultaneously.
Especially, when the naughty pet tries to top from the bottom and he wants to be in charge.
Yes--strict, but passionate. The naughty pet has to be taken in hand, as does the saucy tease, but my contention is, she's doing it to get a reaction.

So the general consensus seems to be that a sub's gift should be repaid in her master's excitement, that the arousal is a push-pull kind of thing: tying her up makes me hot and my heat turns her on. Kind of a feedback loop?