Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Maybe..... but only maybe.

Wouldn't you prefer someone whose attention to you obliviated the need to test him, who made you feel so content and cared for in your submission that the thought, the need to test him... was entirely sublimated, subsumed, subdued.

Then you could contentedly devote all your efforts to pleasing him.
Only a few are lucky enough to find one who pays that kind of attention. I'm one of the lucky few.