Quote Originally Posted by delia View Post
So my advice? If you are a sub that likes to push... try what I almost failed to try in time: use your words. They explain things that your body never can, that your Dominant can't "sense".

Communication, like all things in lifestyle, is a two way street.
Absolutely right! I had a wonderful relationship with a lady a few years ago - and if I hadn't talked to her about my 'sub' side, I would never have realiesd that she had a Domme side...and she had never found a male sub to play with.

There's always a 50/50 chance in life (better than most odds) and it will either be a 'yes' or a 'no'...but you won't know until you talk about it.