Quote Originally Posted by moptop View Post
Oh - The Glare.

Yeah.

Nothing else really matters at that point...

*shakes herself* Where was I?

OK: so, I find the whole leather thing a total turn-off. It smacks to me of 'If I dress up right, I'll know how to be a dom'. So - I like smart-casual. Sometimes seriously smart can be very, very exciting - the full DJ etc. - or an extremely well cut suit - as long as 'The Domly Air' is there... Then again - sometimes really scraggy jeans and a ripped T-shirt can do it, too... So overall, I think really, as long as he is clothed, and he looks like he belongs in his clothes and is confident and at ease with himself - then that does it for me.
Unless you happen to ride a motorcycle... in which case it looks very appropriate. I get to wear my leathers in very mundane, very vanilla situations... and I can tell you there's certainly an appreciation of the look from all the supposedly vanilla women.