In a scene, watching or being watched, I've done that. Didn't really turn my personal crank... now if I had my submissive with me and she were decidedly uncomfortable being watched... or decidedly excited by being watched, that might get me into it.

Sex... well I think my problem with watching is I'd want to participate. LOL. I don't know about being watched... but then... if I were watching and then participating... I guess being watched comes with the territory.


sipgirl, if you're not sure... I could come back east and help you set up a test run.