Quote Originally Posted by jeanne View Post
I've learned from my own personal experience - if he's not interested enough to learn how to do it right and safely, then he's not dominant. Because if he were, his dominant pride and desire to dominate you would drive him to seek out knowledge.

I'm in that boat too - very little playing with my beloved husband. Thank God the vanilla sex is good!
Basically yes.... just took me a while to realize that and was hoping to save someone else the extended "painful" hoping... lol