It is only you that can decide if you should be here {i will say} Sir...

If it feels right and you feel like you are in the right place then yes Sir you should be here...

If you find you enjoy yourself as well in the forum and in chat .. then yes Sir you should be here...

If you find you are very curious with the life style and want to find out about more of it .. again yes Sir you could not have picked a better place to be but here...

If you want guidance and learning tools to find your inner-self.. then yes you have found one of the most friendliest places to be... so once again yes Sir you should be here....

If you find yourself craving this life style even just a small amount... then Sir yes you should be here...

Or if you just want to make friends and investigate this life style and the wonderful people involved.. Yes Sir you should be here...

i am a sub of over 20yrs.. although i would never consider myself as a mentor.. but i feel you have a taste that you can't quite get out of your mouth or mind Sir.. I may be wrong in thinking that Sir .. but if that being the case i would say maybe you should be here Sir.... and learn more about the life style..

Only you will know Sir if it is right for you in time... But you will never know unless you allow yourself to be involved.. and that would be a shame Sir if you were always left wondering... Not knowing if your full desires were met..

So i would suggest Sir to stick it out for awhile and see where it goes..

Just my opinion Sir

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snowflake