Quote Originally Posted by blythespirit View Post
ReqSpec, your profile states that you're a sub/male. Now you want to be a Dom? Or are you a switch? I'm confused.
Maybe that was a misunderstanding... everyone from India is considered...


sub-continental....

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Req... stick it out. Learn a little. Your question is something you need to decide for yourself... and you can only do a good job of that if you take the time to educate yourself... which would also be great advice if you weren't questioning yourself but merely intended to stick around regardless.

And I think an intelligent experienced sub could do wonders for a beginning dominant. Too many who want to be dominant partners think they can't show they are still learning.

Hell... I'm still learning and intend to learn 'til the day I die... of pleasure.

I'll bet you would get an outstanding response with a personal ad that said something like:

"New to the lifestyle with dominant desires... Looking for that special submissive man/woman (fill in what you need) who can teach me how to teach him/her a lesson."

Something in that vein.
Good luck.