sipgirl,

As far as watching a couple or being watched as a couple I have little as far as actually experiences to offer. But the one occasion where I have been watched was simply a vanilla sexual encounter and while I don’t recall being bothered by the fact we were being watched by a male friend of mine, I also don’t recall that it contributed anything significant to the experience for me. So I’m fairly confident that having someone watch me and a partner would not be a tremendous turn-on or anything. In the same incident I watched him have sex with the same girl and again didn’t find it to be tremendously exciting. She was a girl we met in a club and made it plain she was willing to leave with us and have sex with both of us, so there was no great emotional involvement there. Actually I find it a bit curious that the actual experience of watching wasn’t all that profound because I have since viewed porn with men and women having sex and that has always been somewhat arousing.

My only other experience was while dating a girl several years ago, after going to bed one evening, out of the blue she asked me to masturbate while she watched because she thought it might be a turn on for her and had never watched a man masturbate before. I agreed and to be honest actually felt a little self-conscious about it but judging by what happened afterwards, I would have to say that she did find it to be a very big turn on. The circumstance with which I have had the most experience is watching a girl masturbate which I have experienced numerous times and that definitely I find very arousing. A part of that I’m sure is the fact that I enjoy the fact she is doing it because I’ve asked her to. But I also simply love to watch what I consider to be a very beautiful and moving scene.

In fantasy sometimes am aroused by thinking about watching a woman I happen to be dating or otherwise involved with having sex with another man, but it is always in the context of her being caught in unfaithfulness in “the act” so to speak and neither of them would be aware that they were being watched. But again, I’m quite certain this something that I find arousing in fantasy but not something I’d actually want to be involved in real life.

Quote Originally Posted by sipgirl
…I think the significant aspect of this situation is that He knows how degraded, somewhat humiliated and yet completely turned on this entire situation will make me. I mean I cant even fathom the idea of someone watching him crop me, watching me on my knees at his feet, his hand wrapped in my hair and the other round' my neck..and just knowing someone else ( a Dominant someone else) is there...watching...seeing me in total submission!!!Whew!!Ok....thats enough of that!
After reading your third post in this thread, I do believe I can understand and see why you feel the experience would elicit the emotions and feelings you described. These I think would be atypical of a submissive’s point of view, especially one who finds some degree of humiliation to be arousing and submissively significant, and makes perfect sense to me.

I hope you will share later how you felt should it happen that you do participate in the experience you described.