What Good do secrets and lies do? Whatever is the Point of these things? What is the message to a person about a person who does them? How can a Real Relationship be had with someone who is not Honest? Someone who manipulates the Truth? Someone who has secrets from and in a Relationship that affect the Relationship itself?

There are Dominants who lie, there are Submissives who lie....there are people who lie. And How does one seperate what is True and Real from the lies and secrets with a person like this? Does Knowing someone help decipher these things? Knowing but not Really Knowing? Don't secrets and lies prevent True Intimacy? Break Trust? Prevent a True Power Exchange?

Or is it just me?

Respectfully~SidheWolf