Quote Originally Posted by rushfortomorow View Post
does anyone find it hard starting a relationship not knowing if the persons sexual desires are the same?
YES!!!! but on the flip side...I find when I do let my desires be known then guys seem to forget that I am a person as well. I have had guys completely forget why they started talking to me in the first place as soon as I reveal that I am interested in BDSM. It is very important to me that anyone I am going to persue any kind of relationship with is sexually compatable as well as compatable outside of the bedroom...how does one find a happy medium...or am I just talking to the wrong guys??