Quote Originally Posted by rushfortomorow View Post
does anyone find it hard starting a relationship not knowing if the persons sexual desires are the same? Also if you and your partners desires are vastly different do you feel cut off, not being able to express that part of yourself sexually?
I have tried dating in the vanilla world, and let me tell you, it's invariably disappointing. I actually had 2 guys flip out when I told them what I liked. *eye roll* The majority of them were boring as hell. The fun ones would play along, but they weren't really "into" it. My advice to you and to anyone else who has a fetish...or 5....is to STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND THEIRS!!!! The definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. There are BDSM-oriented dating web sites, night clubs, dungeons, munches, etc., where you can meet people with similar interests. I used collarme.com and have been with my dominant for 9 months. I wish you the best of luck in your search!