Quote Originally Posted by Flaming-Redhead View Post
I have tried dating in the vanilla world, and let me tell you, it's invariably disappointing. I actually had 2 guys flip out when I told them what I liked. *eye roll* The majority of them were boring as hell. The fun ones would play along, but they weren't really "into" it. My advice to you and to anyone else who has a fetish...or 5....is to STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND THEIRS!!!! The definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. There are BDSM-oriented dating web sites, night clubs, dungeons, munches, etc., where you can meet people with similar interests. I used collarme.com and have been with my dominant for 9 months. I wish you the best of luck in your search!
I agree with Redhead. If you are lifestyle oriented, (either Dom or sub), a vanilla relationship may provide short term satisfaction, but in the long it's likely to be very disappointing.

Be true to yourself & take the time to meet the right person for you in every way possible. I did.