Razor

Sounds like an idiot to me, Razor. Chances are you can ignore the guy. If he keeps up do something about it.

Mad

I had someone who wanted me to write the "best BDSM story ever" which he outlined as being about a child like ballerina who was kidnapped, raped, bound suspended upside down,carved up, and it went downhill from there

That sounds sort of like one of your more mellow stories.