I met both my girls on forums. They made posts that were intriguing & interesting, & wrote bondage fiction, as do I.
My slave girl sent me PM on my birthday, which was lovely. We started playing, & now have an established relationship.
As for my dream girl, a similar story, she was writing an erotic story & we started PMing each other. We tried an online D/s thing that didn't work. We just chat now, every day & talk on the phone each week. Mostly we talk about how we'd love to be together if I wasn't married, & all the things I'd do to her...
We are planning a r/l meeting, which i'm looking forward to- just for a bit of play & to see each other. I might give her a hug & a kiss....

Tojo