Quote Originally Posted by Nothinggood View Post
Ok, I have just had one of the oddest things said to me, by my roommate. She knows that I am into BDSM and finds the idea very interesting (No, she and I are off limits to each other, it just doesn't work). But she was commenting that she has a hard time believing that I am a Dom because I am "Just too giving."

This came up after she saw me with my last sub. My little one had managed to stab a rather large thorn into her foot, in the back yard. I immediately picked her up, put her on the couch, and checked the foot. I do things like this constantly, I see no reason for the people I care about to be in any unnecessary pain or displeasure. But my roommate seems to think that this interferes with me being a Dom.

She has said that if she didn't know me personally, she would never believe I was a Dom. So, my question is this. Does me being generally giving and helpful preclude me being a good Dom. I have little intention of changing me self, as I like who I am, but I would like some other opinions.

Thanks in advance.

I Good Maledom, will be a caring loving person or should be, the fatc that they are a Dom should not indicate that they are demanding always ect, they will be ster ect but if you have a good D/s relationship as a Dom, I see no reason why you can't be a giving caring person
Being a Dom is one thing, being a Human with feling is another, all Dom are human beings and all humans have feeling.

Just my 2 cents worth