Hi everyone. Its been a while.
I'm sorting things out..
The pain I talked about turns out to be a condition which has been treated to a pretty successful degree by some magic cream. I am manage intercourse easily.
I am proudly reading a copy of the MarketPlace by Laura Antoniou and every page I read makes me wetter and wetter!
Having been recently burgled and all my stuff getting nicked. I found the whole process liberating and I have been shopping on the internet and bought myself some new restraints and a selection of toys for my DH to use on me.
I Just wanted to thank everyone for their support when I most needed it and now I hope to deepen by understanding of the whole BDSM world and find out what works for me.
As for the weirdo that stole my butt plugs..., I hope he caught something nasty from them!
best wishes
SID