What do you like to be called?

[Iron_Lynx]

I noticed there is a similar thread to this one for subs, but I couldn't come up with anything for our doms. I'm wondering what different titles you like to go by/ How you expect your subs to address you.

[Euryleia]

I'm a southern girl, so when I'm Domming I prefer to be called Ma'am.

[_ID_]

If being addressed by my submissive...
- Mother Fucker! That Hurt
- Fucker! That Hurt
- Asshole! That Hurt
- Bastard! That Hurt
- Sir!!! That Hurt
- Master! That Hurt
- mmphufhhgh!!! af huff (of course this is when she is gagged)


If being addressed by someone I don't know, I go by my first name. If being addressed by someone I don't know on a website. I prefer ID. If being addressed by people I do know. They can call me whatever honorific title they wish, or by my first name, or screen name.

[Alex Bragi]

I call Bragi my FotC..*g*-- the "C" stands for Century. He's kind of partial to the title too.

[thedominthehat]

Its really more about how a submissive says it than what they say and depends on the fantasy being played out. I find being called Sir to be hot and being called master to be awkward and it always seems to get Master of Puppets stuck in my head.

[Draco]

Misstress is usualy the title, although there are others. Much like thedominthehat said, sometimes it depands on what is going on at the time.

[Sir_Russell]

If I have accepted her then Master is what turn me on the most Sir is acceptable but not nearly the turn on of Master. Sir is what I expect others subs to address by but not the one I have taken for mine. She is the only one that has the right to call me Master

[AAR]

hy i'm a domme
love to test my sub:

[annie]

If I have accepted her then Master is what turn me on the most Sir is acceptable but not nearly the turn on of Master. Sir is what I expect others subs to address by but not the one I have taken for mine. She is the only one that has the right to call me Master

Hmmmm... this might be where we would clash. I refuse to address any one, especially as a sub, as Sir until they have earned a level of respect from me. If the word "Sir" does not come naturally into the conversation and from the depths of my soul when speaking to a Dom then to use it means I have to force it. Which feels as though it cheapens what the word means to me, something I refuse to do. Just as I won't use the word "Master" in addressing even my own Dom unless it comes naturally and builds from within. Again anything less cheapens the meaning behind the word to me.

That being said, from your posts and such Sir Russell, I'm quite sure if we were to ever talk in private "Sir" would be included in the conversation naturally.

[Sir_Russell]

just_annie,
thank you for that I do not expect to be shown respect just because I say I am a Dom but again the thread was what do you Doms perfer to be called. I answer honestly.

Oh one more thing, I never insist on any term I will tell what I like but I do not take offense to any that won't or can't use them. Of course if the sub can't then we will probably not ever work in the Life, so if friends I will treat them as totally vanilla.

[Ruby]

It depends on the person.

I prefer my Nat to call me Miss
and my other role playing subs to call me Mistress.

Often both subs or doms in the lifestyle will call me Mistress
or Mistress Ruby. Domme and Ma'am are also used.

If it makes them feel more comfortable, that's fine.
However, Ruby works for me.

[Ozme52]

When you're getting to know me, Oz works find.
If you're a sub and it's more comfortable, Sir is acceptable.
I'm used to Sir from the SCA as well. So it is less meaningful to me as a sign of submission.

When I'm involved with you more intimately, online or itf, you would address me as Milord.

It's similar conceptually to Lord of the Manor. Yeah, I'm a medieval.

Occassionally I will refer to myself as 'your master' and there are 'ceremonial' times you might address me as Master. Usually if I am giving you something... or taking something I own.

[angelic.zest]

Hmmmm... this might be where we would clash. I refuse to address any one, especially as a sub, as Sir until they have earned a level of respect from me. If the word "Sir" does not come naturally into the conversation and from the depths of my soul when speaking to a Dom then to use it means I have to force it. Which feels as though it cheapens what the word means to me, something I refuse to do. Just as I won't use the word "Master" in addressing even my own Dom unless it comes naturally and builds from within. Again anything less cheapens the meaning behind the word to me.

That being said, from your posts and such Sir Russell, I'm quite sure if we were to ever talk in private "Sir" would be included in the conversation naturally.

as annie stated it has to come natural for her, its the same with me, i usually call the "Dominant" by his name, or i'll ususally ask what i may call him to keep down any hard feelings, if it doesnt come natural for me, i cant see myself calling a man Sir, or Master, Just because you call yourself Dominant, doesn't always mean you have earned that respect from me to be called "Sir" or "Master" the respect has to be earned and not just given because u see yourself as one way..same goes for my submission, his respect for me has to be earned earned in order to be able to call myself "his girl" or "his slutty angel".
I call my Dominant "Master" and it just feels right, deep down he has earned this respect from me and ive earned the right to be called his lil angel...*feels all mushy now* ekiies LOL.. ooohh but i also call him..."Sae" or "baby" giggles...but dont know if he wanted me to say that LOL..j/k

[Flaming_Redhead]

If being addressed by my submissive...
- Mother Fucker! That Hurt
- Fucker! That Hurt
- Asshole! That Hurt
- Bastard! That Hurt
- Sir!!! That Hurt
- Master! That Hurt
- mmphufhhgh!!! af huff (of course this is when she is gagged)

ROFLMAO!!!!!

My dominant told me to address him by whatever I'm comfortable with, either his name, nickname, sir or whatever. *smiles* I decided when looking for a dom that I wanted one who would be like a father figure. Therefore, when I met VoodooMan and everything clicked, I almost immediately began calling him "Daddy." He's a good bit older than me, so I guess he's technically old enough to be my daddy. He even has the same first name as my biological father, which gives a new meaning to "who's your daddy?" *ggls* When we're playing, I'll sometimes resort to calling him sir, as in "yes, sir" when he's giving me an order. However, if I'm begging, I'll go back to Daddy, as in "Daddy, please!" Around others or while being a smart ass, I'll use his first name or title and last name. My favorite, though, is "Daddy." It just has a nice ring to it. I'm afraid that I'll slip up one day around my family and say it without even realizing....until I notice the shocked expressions. *lol*

[crazy_grrluk]

If being addressed by my submissive...
- Mother Fucker! That Hurt
- Fucker! That Hurt
- Asshole! That Hurt
- Bastard! That Hurt
- Sir!!! That Hurt
- Master! That Hurt
- mmphufhhgh!!! af huff (of course this is when she is gagged)

lololol

I call S1 Master when not in front of family and the kids. but whatever name I address him by it all means the same to us

[Sadistic1]

If being addressed by my submissive...
- Mother Fucker! That Hurt
- Fucker! That Hurt
- Asshole! That Hurt
- Bastard! That Hurt
- Sir!!! That Hurt
- Master! That Hurt
- mmphufhhgh!!! af huff (of course this is when she is gagged)


If being addressed by someone I don't know, I go by my first name. If being addressed by someone I don't know on a website. I prefer ID. If being addressed by people I do know. They can call me whatever honorific title they wish, or by my first name, or screen name.

LMAO ID


Well said..

I prefer to be called by my first name...or in the forums S1

In the scene most that know me, call me by my first name...I know who I am and am very secure about it, I dont need others to remind me...smiles..just my opinion.

In my girls case as cg stated all are the same.

[J-Go]

When in play I prefer Master from my sub. Sir, Dominant, Lord also acceptable.
In RL my name is fine first or last. Coach is a moniker I have earned over the years as I coach baseball. If the boys on my baseball teams only knew....

[newby]

i struggle w/ this. i call Him Master but i consider myself a sub not a slave so that doesnt feel quite right. We are both martial arts instructors so we call each other sir & maam in that part of our life, so i dont like calling him "Sir" outside of the school. i want a name that shows my respect & my submissiveness but i'm not quite sure what it is yet.

[Sir_Russell]

What is funny is that I know she is mine when she slips up in public and calls me Master

[DowntownAmber]

If the boys on my baseball teams only knew....

Hmmm... You don't want them to know? Does this mean I'll have to remove "J's Pet" from the back of the jersey I wear to next year's games? Next I suppose you'll make me hide my collar too... *snort* Peh!

[Sadistic1]

What is funny is that I know she is mine when she slips up in public and calls me Master

I agree Russell Happy New Year and best wishes to you....

It makes me smile when my girl does it , I grin even more when it happens to someone else. I also enjoy seeing the reaction from the Dominate one when His/Hers makes the slip up.....*Its Priceless*

[TomOfSweden]

I like variety. My slave has gotten the habit of jokingly calling me "God". It's gotten stuck. Not pompous or anything.... Not at all

[tessa]

I like variety. My slave has gotten the habit of jokingly calling me "God". It's gotten stuck. Not pompous or anything.... Not at all

Not pompous. Couldn't be.

Self-fulfilling prophecy, maybe?

If being addressed by my submissive...
- Mother Fucker! That Hurt
- Fucker! That Hurt
- Asshole! That Hurt
- Bastard! That Hurt
- Sir!!! That Hurt
- Master! That Hurt
- mmphufhhgh!!! af huff (of course this is when she is gagged)

I really needed that giggle. Thanks, ID.

[The Tigress]

In play, instinctively I am called Mistress ____(name) by my submissive, and occasionally in public, though not when overheard, if that makes sense.

In public, I am pretty much called my name, sans titles. I happily accept most any respectful names when communicating, but in play (when both of us are in the headspace) I demand to be called what I see as the most respectful, and power-giving title of 'Mistress', always with my first name following. He is thinking too much if he is getting creative with names, while he should be focusing on the task at hand..

[***Kate***]

Greetings.
lets start with what I like to be called. well dont call me anything ( call me ???? what you think i am a pet???). its Address me as Ma'am or Kate. never ever call me a Domme. look at the word because 1.. I am not a man/Dom 2..its not about ME its about a way of life with others..
If any slave or sub said >you mother fucker!" or "I fucking hate you, you asshole!" or "son of a bitch!" <<< to me then their arse would be so sore they would wish the earth would open up and swallow them.. and that is either if in jest /play or any other manner.
My slaves Address me as Ma'am no matter where we are. its a way of life for us Not a life style.
in saying that each to their own. however come to my place and see how far you get in the door if you dont Address me correctly...(like the sign on my house "Beware of the Gorean)

[***Kate***]

[QUOTE=delia While visiting Kate & the slavey ones last summer, I used the proper house protocol for Her house (see Her post, above) because: a.) it's Her house, b.) i was under Her "wing", c.) that is what my Master would expect me to do... it's what is "proper"...
[/QUOTE]

And that my dear girl is because your well trained...

***Kate***

[~hellish one~]

When you're getting to know me, Oz works find.
If you're a sub and it's more comfortable, Sir is acceptable.

OR - OzzyWizardpants!

[Logic1]

Normally I prefer my given name but Sir works fine for me aswell.

[GreyJack]

Being from So Cal, I'm mostly a very casual guy and usually call people by the their first names or nicks (or some abbreviation of nicks), even in business situations, but this is about what we like to be called nto what we call others. Again, I'm fairly casual, my nick or some variation is fine. If in a relationship, Sir or Mr. ____ (last name) works in public for sub or slave, in private Sir (as Dom) or Master if it's a M/s relationship. Daddy might work in a role play, but I'd have to be fairly deep in the relationship (and the act) to permit "Oh, baby" *VBES*

[GreyJack]

Being from So Cal, I'm mostly a very casual guy and usually call people by the their first names or nicks (or some abbreviation of nicks), even in business situations, but this is about what we like to be called nto what we call others. Again, I'm fairly casual, my nick or some variation is fine. If in a relationship, Sir or Mr. ____ (last name) works in public for sub or slave, in private Sir (as Dom) or Master if it's a M/s relationship. Daddy might work in a role play, but I'd have to be fairly deep in the relationship (and the act) to permit "Oh, baby" *VBES*